Question: My child never seems to get ready on time. How can I help her to be organized so that we are not late to school in the morning?

Answer: One way to get your child organized is to design a chart that breaks down what she needs to do to get ready into manageable and specific steps.

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Then set consequences and rewards for accomplishing these steps. It is important to check the chart each day and review it with your child. Stress the importance of getting to school on time. You may want to talk about all the advantages of being on time — having extra time to chat with friends, having time to ask the teacher any questions that you may have, and preparing for the start of the day without being rushed. See the sample contract and “Get Organized” chart below:

Sample Contract
Week of September 5, 2005
I promise to finish all the chores on my chart every school day. If I miss two or more, I will not be able to go to the movies this weekend.
Signed:
_________________________
Child
_________________________
Parent

"Get Organized" Chart

Directions: Put a smiley in the box if chore is completed.

Week of September 5, 2005

Chores

Mon.

Tue.

Wed.

Thu.

Fri.

1. Set alarm clock
2. School bag is packed the night before with homework, books and school supplies
3. Clothes (or uniform) are laid out the night before
4. Lunch money (or lunch) is in the backpack
5. All school notes are signed and placed in the folder or planner

Dr. Ruth Jacoby has been involved in education for more than 30 years as an educator, principal and currently as an educational consultant in Florida. She is the co-author of the School Talk! Success Series including the recently published Parent Talk!: The Art of Effective Communication With the School and Your Child and the soon-to-be-published Homework Talk! and Test Talk!

Advice from our experts is not a substitute for medical or other professional advice and services from a qualified health-care provider familiar with your unique situation. We recommend consulting a qualified professional if you have concerns about your child's medical or emotional condition.

August 2005